Dazed and Confused

I always assumed Justin would be my scatterbrained child, what with all his Asperger-related organizational difficulties, but Brayden is taking “scatterbrained” to a whole new level. Every day when I pick him up from kindergarten, he comes out with his backpack hanging open and a trail of forgotten items behind him. We’re already down a hoody, a water bottle and a lunch bowl, and nothing is getting better. I talked to his teacher a couple days ago and apparently there are two other kids with the same problem, so she’s going to try to help. But even yesterday, Brayden came out without his coat, which we eventually found on the floor near the sink…then on the way out I found one of his inside shoes peeking out from under a table. Sigh.

I’m getting used to being alone for most of the day, but it can still be tough to find ways to be productive. I’m working through my tech comm course, and I seem to do a lot of shopping, and sometimes I get some extra exercise…but I think I need to find more ways to get out of the house. I hate being bored.

Joining the Collective

The world’s gone crazy: I now have an iPhone 4S, and Chris does not. This is big news considering Chris has been campaigning for an iPhone for at least two years and I’ve been telling him he doesn’t need one, they’re a waste of money, blah blah blah. (You might recall we had this same debate about the iPad, and I caved on that one a few months ago. Don’t judge me.)

But lately I’ve been thinking that I really do need a good phone now that both boys are in school and I’m not necessarily home as much (suppose I hadn’t been here when the school called about Justin’s head wound?) I’ve actually had a cell phone for years, but it was really only for emergencies, and I almost never turned it on. I could have kept that one, but I wanted an easier way to send texts and check email, and since we’re part of the Apple universe anyway, an iPhone seemed like the way to go. Now I just have to live down all the mocking (and get used to the monthly bill…sigh).

The fact that Chris was OK with me getting one and not him makes me suspect he has something else up his sleeve. Guess I’ll have to wait and see.

Back to School

A new era has begun: today was Brayden’s first day of full-day kindergarten. I finally have both boys going to the same school for the same number of hours! Brayden did great — the kid seems to be made for kindergarten. And he’s totally stoked about going to the same school as his brother.

I hardly knew what to do with myself today…until the school called at 2:00 to say that Justin was in the office with a head wound (in their words: “It’s not bleeding profusely, but you might want to come down and take a look.”) He fell during recess and got a small scratch on his head, but he’s fine. The irony is that we didn’t have time to go home cause I had to pick Brayden up at 2:30 — so instead of sitting in class, Justin played on the playground for 20 minutes. Nice.

 

The Camping Experience

I’ve never been a big fan of camping (I’ve actively avoided it since my month-long tenting tour of Europe in 1998), but Chris has fond memories from his childhood and wanted to give our kids the same experience. So when Dave and Tanya invited us to crash in their trailer for a night in the Shuswaps, we decided to give it a go. The weather could’ve been better (it was cloudy and kind of cool) but everyone still had a good time.

Some highlights:

At the beach, Justin insisted that Dad do the 15-minute walk back to the campsite to retrieve his goggles. When Dad finally returned, Justin spent 3.2 seconds in the water before announcing he was done. Nice.

The kids were so excited to be allowed to walk to the washrooms by themselves that they made half a dozen trips in the span of about 20 minutes.

Brayden loved building the fire and roasting hot dogs. Justin was more interested in playing with Dad’s iPad.

Both boys slept past 7 a.m. That alone makes me think we might want to try this again.

Soaking Up the Sun

August has been a nice blend of busy and down time. Justin did a couple of science camps that he really seemed to enjoy: he came home from the last one explaining the difference between endothermic and exothermic reactions. (Methinks Grade 2 might be a bit of a letdown, but we’ll see.) Brayden also did a couple of play-in-the-park camps with his preschool teacher — and so ends our time with Miss Melissa, who has done so much for my kids over the last three years. We’ll miss her.

When they weren’t in camps, the kids and I have been hanging at the beach, going to the odd movie, chilling at the local waterparks and enjoying some play dates. I started my technical communication program a couple weeks ago too, so I’ve been working on assignments in my off hours. It’s a bit tougher to fit that in when the kids are here all the time (which they will be for the next couple weeks…ugh) but it’s working out all right. I’ll be doing eight courses over the next 14 months, so it better work out all right.

T minus 16 days…the school year approaches…

 

 

Home Improvement

A few weeks ago it occurred to me that it might be time to update the boys’ bedrooms. Neither room had been decorated since before its occupant was born, and both have taken a beating from two rambunctious little boys (plus I was looking forward to taking down the 154 papers of dinosaur names that Justin had plastered all over his walls). Brayden agreed to do his room in blue, which came out really nice; Justin wanted green, so I did that, but then he decided he wanted the old color back, so I had to repaint (sigh).  Chris even bought some Angry Birds wall stickers to really bring the decor up to date. Anyway, here are the before-and-afters:

 

 

 

A Howlin’ Good Weekend

It ain’t Disney, or even West Edmonton Mall, but the Great Wolf Lodge still gave the kids a pretty good weekend. Most people come for the waterpark, which was a lot of fun — it was only a fraction the size of the one in Edmonton, but unlike West Ed it’s only open to hotel guests, so it never seemed overly crowded.

The real attraction for our kids was MagiQuest, a live-action adventure game that sends you all over the hotel pointing your magic wand at treasure chests, trees and crystals that light up and talk to you. You have to buy the wands and the game (naturally) but it kept the boys busy for hours. They were also thrilled with the arcade, mainly because they each earned enough tickets to get a new Angry Birds plush toy.

Was it worth the money? Not really. But it was a nice little getaway.

Thinking Global

With all the hoopla surrounding the Olympics, it got me thinking about how fortunate I’ve been to have seen so much of the world. I took my first trip outside North America when I was 16; since then, I’ve been hooked on international travel. I’ve been lucky enough to tour dozens of different countries on five different continents, including:

Aruba, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Canada, Denmark, England, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Grenada, Italy, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Monaco, the Netherlands, Poland, Puerto Rico, Russia, St. Kitts, Scotland, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Tunisia, the U.S., Vatican City, and Venezuela

You’d think there wouldn’t be much left on my bucket list, but I’d still like to see Egypt, Greece and Turkey (particularly Istanbul, the city that straddles Europe and Asia) someday. You gotta have dreams.

I’m getting pumped about our family road trip to Washington coming up this weekend. (The boys finally get to use their passports!) Justin is back to his usual self and both kids are excited about Great Wolf Lodge, so it should be a good time. Stay tuned.

Will the Real Justin Lee Please Stand Up?

I was hoping to be able to say that Easter Seals gave my son the best week of his life, but the jury’s still out on that one. He’s been Mr. Manic since he came home — huge giggling fits followed by some truly epic meltdowns. His counsellors tell me he was a model camper, always respectful of other people and always willing to take on a new challenge…so maybe the stress of holding it together for five days is just working itself out now. I dunno. He seemed much better this afternoon, so there is hope.

Tonight we hosted a BBQ for our Asperger group, which went amazingly well. After all of Justin’s craziness over the last couple days, we wondered how he would handle the whole thing, but he and everyone else did great.

This week Justin’s in a science camp at the college while Brayden does another preschool camp, then next weekend we’re off to the Great Wolf Lodge. Things are hopping…